i don't have time tonight to read it all, and i'll forget another time, however i read the first few paragraphs and i think you're making very valid arguments, but i also don't think that happens with every adoption. i mentioned when i commented before a classmate who is adopted. she knows she is adopted and has always known this, she also has hey birth mothers address and last time i asked was building up the courage to try and write to her. she isn't in the slightest bit messed up.
i think the problems come when children are taken away from parents capable of raising thier children, but night need a little more support, or when the adoptive parents deny their child is adopted.
i think it all comes down to each child, each case, each biological parent, each social worker, each adoptive parent.
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Date: 2009-06-02 09:48 pm (UTC)i think the problems come when children are taken away from parents capable of raising thier children, but night need a little more support, or when the adoptive parents deny their child is adopted.
i think it all comes down to each child, each case, each biological parent, each social worker, each adoptive parent.