As you may know my opinion of adoption went down dramatically not long ago. On that subject: It's ridiculous to willingly go out of your way to adopt a child, then complain that it's too much.

If someone feels like raising a child is too exhausting for them, they shouldn't do it in the first place. Part of what's to blame is the idea that by becoming a parent that you'll raise your social status, which I think is partially behind these parents who adopt even though they don't have what it takes.