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Jun. 7th, 2007 10:20 pmso my brother is staying with us at the mo because he ended up having nowhere else to go and my parents wouldn't let him live with them,
and really I really don't like who he has become, hes 23 but from the way he behaves you wouldn't think he was a day over seventeen, he seems to think the whole world revolves around him. He is incredibly rude about every body and everything but not only that, hes really ignorant with is, and he knows bugger all about anything and has these strongly held beliefs that are based on facts that are clearly wrong, (like he will not listen to anyone who tells hi wales is a different country from England) and he blames all his selfish bigoted behavior on a)his background, B) the generation he comes from. which is complete and utter bollocks one of the neighbours kids asked him why he swore so much and he was like "Its my background" which is crap, our parents never swore ever.
And then I was pulling him up on how all things about women is weather they are fit or not, and hes like "oh well its my generation, all people of my generation just think about sex" and I'm like whatever some of my best friends are the same age as you and they are not obsessed with sex" and hes like "yeah well that's because they are obviously posh and rich" umm yeah whatever I'm sure![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
interfaceleader had so much more money than some spoilt Winchester kid who went to private school. and so he uses the excuse for being a bastard on his background and then he behave like its all set in stone now and nothing can change like its somehow illegal to try and become a better person.
He thinks he can have anything he wants and that the whole world should revolve round him, and he refuses to give any leeway to anyone else, and he thinks he can have anything, like he keeps picking up things around the house and going "i want this" and its like um, no its ours. Its my parents fault because until he was sixteen they gave him everything he wanted, never said no to anything and I'm sure that's where his bad attitude to women comes from, he thinks every woman wants him and he has a right to harass women because he has a right to be with any woman he wants, and he uses words like bitch and slut waay too much, and hes such a hypocrite he was going on about how bad abortion was and how it was murder blah, blah, blah (like its any of his business what women do with their bodies) and then he went on about how he didnt use condoms because it wasn't his responsibility, it was the woman's responsibility to sort out birth control. selfish fucker. And hes racist and homophobic as well
Yesterday he had a screaming row through the window at a bunch of kids (seriously they were like 14-16) He stands at the window making faces at people and flexing his musles then he wonders why people look at him, so anyway the kids started throwing pebbles at the windows so he started screaming at them and telling them he was going to bang them out and how he was going to set the dog on them (stray was furious cos she doesnt want people thinking that Pippa is vicious, but really if you knew pip, it would make you laugh) anyway we took pip out and went to talk to the kids cos we wanted to know that she was friendly and we wanted the kids to know we thought my brother was being a wanker and we wernt like that.
I'm drawing up a contract though that he has to follow, or he cant live here.
( anyway the contract is here )
so i dont know , what do other people think of this?
people have said we should just make hm leave but i think i will feel like I've failed him if i do that and anyway i think having him live with Paul will be good with him because he will See that being a man doesnt have to mean being full of macho bullshit.
and really I really don't like who he has become, hes 23 but from the way he behaves you wouldn't think he was a day over seventeen, he seems to think the whole world revolves around him. He is incredibly rude about every body and everything but not only that, hes really ignorant with is, and he knows bugger all about anything and has these strongly held beliefs that are based on facts that are clearly wrong, (like he will not listen to anyone who tells hi wales is a different country from England) and he blames all his selfish bigoted behavior on a)his background, B) the generation he comes from. which is complete and utter bollocks one of the neighbours kids asked him why he swore so much and he was like "Its my background" which is crap, our parents never swore ever.
And then I was pulling him up on how all things about women is weather they are fit or not, and hes like "oh well its my generation, all people of my generation just think about sex" and I'm like whatever some of my best friends are the same age as you and they are not obsessed with sex" and hes like "yeah well that's because they are obviously posh and rich" umm yeah whatever I'm sure
interfaceleader had so much more money than some spoilt Winchester kid who went to private school. and so he uses the excuse for being a bastard on his background and then he behave like its all set in stone now and nothing can change like its somehow illegal to try and become a better person. He thinks he can have anything he wants and that the whole world should revolve round him, and he refuses to give any leeway to anyone else, and he thinks he can have anything, like he keeps picking up things around the house and going "i want this" and its like um, no its ours. Its my parents fault because until he was sixteen they gave him everything he wanted, never said no to anything and I'm sure that's where his bad attitude to women comes from, he thinks every woman wants him and he has a right to harass women because he has a right to be with any woman he wants, and he uses words like bitch and slut waay too much, and hes such a hypocrite he was going on about how bad abortion was and how it was murder blah, blah, blah (like its any of his business what women do with their bodies) and then he went on about how he didnt use condoms because it wasn't his responsibility, it was the woman's responsibility to sort out birth control. selfish fucker. And hes racist and homophobic as well
Yesterday he had a screaming row through the window at a bunch of kids (seriously they were like 14-16) He stands at the window making faces at people and flexing his musles then he wonders why people look at him, so anyway the kids started throwing pebbles at the windows so he started screaming at them and telling them he was going to bang them out and how he was going to set the dog on them (stray was furious cos she doesnt want people thinking that Pippa is vicious, but really if you knew pip, it would make you laugh) anyway we took pip out and went to talk to the kids cos we wanted to know that she was friendly and we wanted the kids to know we thought my brother was being a wanker and we wernt like that.
I'm drawing up a contract though that he has to follow, or he cant live here.
( anyway the contract is here )
so i dont know , what do other people think of this?
people have said we should just make hm leave but i think i will feel like I've failed him if i do that and anyway i think having him live with Paul will be good with him because he will See that being a man doesnt have to mean being full of macho bullshit.
